Nine days to go

I will shortly be embarking on one of the most exciting trips of my life. I’m nervous, anxious, scared, but also incredibly excited.

I’m still not sure I really believe it’s happening, but I am reminded every day that this is very real.

I’ve been doing very well the past few weeks. My anxiety has been almost nonexistent, and I have been sleeping a lot better.

I’ve started scrobbling to again, so if you’re interested, go check out my profile here:

I’ll leave you with a song I’m playing every day at the moment:

Looking up at the night sky pt. 2

It’s incredibly quiet apart from the occasional owl or sheep calling out. It’s very calming to be outside at this time of night.

In 20 days I’ll make one of the scariest and biggest journies I’ve faced in my life so far.

I never thought I’d be doing this but here I am, faced with the reality that I’m going to be far away from everyone I know here.

It’s almost freeing in a sense that I am doing this, but at the same time, I feel something I’ve not felt in a long time.

I’m not sure I believe we are here for a reason, only to live our lives as we see fit. I’m young and have a whole life ahead of me, so I am making the best of it.

Cause I’m afraid of being nothing

So take this life and make it something

Marmozets – Hit The Wave


Control – thought dump 5

It’s been a while since my last update, I’ve been trying to figure out the right words to day since my last post.

Today has been the first day where I haven’t woken up to shaking and heart palpitations. I don’t feel the anxiety this morning – and it’s great.

A lot has happened in the past week or so – most of which I can’t share publicly, but for those in the know, it’s only been good.

Today, I feel in control of my emotions. I feel in control of my future, and what is going to happen in the next few months.

I’m going to be starting my 2x doseage of my antidepressant on Monday, and I really hope that the side effects aren’t going to be any worse.

The feeling of being in control is elating, I am overjoyed that I am somewhat of my former self. I can and will be happy again.

Next month, I am going far, far outside of my comfort zone. My close friends already know what this is about and I owe it all to them for making me feel a bit less terrified about what I’m going to be doing.

You know who you are – and for that, I thank you for being there for me to talk to, for me to just dump all of my thoughts upon. And for you, reader, for listening to the random thoughts of a guy on the internet.

I’ll leave you with this song. The lyrics mean a great deal to me. It’s about venturing into the unknown and facing your deamons.

They’ll tell you I don’t care anymore
And I hope you’ll know that’s a lie

‘Cause I’ve found what I have been waiting for
But to get there means crossing a line

Thank you.


Remembering – thought dump 3

Really wish that I didn’t care about you anymore, but I do.

I saw another picture of you today while browsing through old pictures.

You could find another me tomorrow, and that’s the hardest pill to swallow.

I didn’t feel as bad as I did yesterday when I saw your picture.

I’m still not sure how I feel about everything.

To have everything taken away from you in an instant, with no warning, everything gone… A feeling I cannot describe through words.

The damage is done, it is long lasting, and it hurts.

I’ve been taking with my friends at every opportunity. I won’t mention names. You know who you are, and you have helped immensely. People who have done their absolute best to try to understand what I’m experiencing.

As I lay in bed tonight, I am reminded of how amazing my friends and family are.

I hope one day that I feel differently about you. True love is not a fleeting feeling, it lasts for a long time.

The scars are real, they will not heal for a long time.

So come rain on my parade
‘Cause I want to feel it
Come shove me over the edge
‘Cause my head is in overdrive

Goodnight everyone. A new day dawns tomorrow. Hopefully a better one.

Waking nightmare – thought dump 2

Even when everything is going right, something small can still ruin your day.

Like this evening. I was doing fine until I saw a picture of you.

I don’t wish to be awake anymore, but you still haunt me even in my dreams.

There’s no escape from this nightmare which I am living in.

I wish to sleep, and not to dream.

I wish to be alone without the thought of you.

I wish to be free of this anxiety.

I wish to be free of this crushing feeling.

Looking out at the night sky – thought dump

Looking out into the night sky, I am reminded that I don’t want to be here.

I’d rather be on that plane, flying overhead, wherever it is going – it’s certainly better than here.

Or in the car driving past, wherever it takes me, it’s not here.

No-one should be put in the situation I am in. Needing a way out of all of this, and having nowhere to go is a horrible feeling.

Being alone is a horrible feeling. I know I am not alone and I have friends who care a great deal for me, but for the moment, I am truly alone with my own thoughts.

My thoughts scare me, and make me believe that everything can be saved by a very rash decision of killing myself. I would never act on these thoughts, but they’re here and they’re here to stay for the foreseeable future.

People keep telling me that it gets easier. But I don’t see it. I’m clouded in my own thoughts and feelings that it will never get better. I want to surround myself with my friends and I want them to hug me and tell me it’s all going to be okay.

The medication I am on is messing with my memory, my work and my judgement. I don’t wish for these side effects. I have an appointment with the doctor on Thursday next week to discuss this.

For the meantime, I’m still on my own – fighting these thoughts of suicide, hatred, anger, bitterness and sadness. Thinking “Will it ever get better?”. Sometimes I think I’m selfish to be burdening others with my problems when I am talking to them about it. My problems are insignificant when compared to what others are going through.

Last week whilst I was wondering the house in a complete daze, I had to put myself to bed, because I was afraid that if I didn’t, I would do something stupid and something I would regret later.

I’ve been compiling a list of all of the people who would miss me, and everything I am grateful for in life. It may sound stupid, but I am most grateful for the night sky. It shows how insignificant we are in the universe.

Right now, the inability to cry is getting to me, and I am emotionally numb. Worried that I will never be the same again.

For me, the sky will never be the same shade of blue again and I fear that any night may be my last. I hope I have the strength to make it through this.

Give your friends a hug, and let them know that you’re there for them. Even if there is nothing wrong. You never know what is happening inside other people’s minds.